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Jo-stands on guard, elbows up.<p>So much of my healing over the years has been just allowing myself to care for myself. Becoming less perfectionist. More compassionate to me. Less trying to fit in, more trying to do what is right for me and seeking that healing space balanced between burdensome &amp; helpful. It’s a constant process. What’s helpful for big picture, might need more nuance in application at an individual &amp; personal level. I’ve had to sacrifice ideas I thought beautiful for my health &amp; safety…<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></p>
:banana_slug:<p>⚠️ EXTREMELY URGENT!! octo is now in debt from not meeting the last 2 months goals. she's barely hanging onto life, please help!!</p><p>$945/~2441 DUE MARCH 31</p><p>octo is a trans, plural recent graduate making plans to move out of her abusive parents' house. she did really well in school but she is struggling with severe anxiety from the abuse &amp; lack of funds for her monthly bills.</p><p>- <a href="https://ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g=0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g</span><span class="invisible">=0</span></a><br>- <a href="https://donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32QfEA6os" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32Q</span><span class="invisible">fEA6os</span></a></p><p>⭐ you can get handmade art or a short story collection or an email with file storage space for donating to her here:<br>- <a href="https://writing.exchange/@riveraerica/113994586546564887" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">writing.exchange/@riveraerica/</span><span class="invisible">113994586546564887</span></a><br>- <a href="https://terror.black/@sayyid_qishta/113422065701306276" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">terror.black/@sayyid_qishta/11</span><span class="invisible">3422065701306276</span></a><br>- <a href="https://flipping.rocks/@inherentlee/113947145294908139" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">flipping.rocks/@inherentlee/11</span><span class="invisible">3947145294908139</span></a><br>- <a href="https://weirder.earth/@june/113889814363872521" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">weirder.earth/@june/1138898143</span><span class="invisible">63872521</span></a><br>- <a href="https://mismo.jagtalon.net/@jag/statuses/01JN1Z7PVEXEG2MW74KRWG30C1" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">mismo.jagtalon.net/@jag/status</span><span class="invisible">es/01JN1Z7PVEXEG2MW74KRWG30C1</span></a></p><p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/mutualaid" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>mutualaid</span></a></span> <span class="h-card"><a href="https://fedigroups.social/@blackfedi" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>blackfedi</span></a></span> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/mutualAid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mutualAid</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/MutualAidRequest" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MutualAidRequest</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BlackTransMutualAid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BlackTransMutualAid</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/transMutualAid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transMutualAid</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/transCrowdfund" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transCrowdfund</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/gameDev" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gameDev</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/student" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>student</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/Fundraiser" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fundraiser</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/nonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BlackMutualAid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BlackMutualAid</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gay</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/tarot" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tarot</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/plural" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>plural</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abuse</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/bills" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bills</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/poverty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poverty</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/handmade" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>handmade</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/pets" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pets</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cats</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/catsOfMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>catsOfMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/queerMutualAid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queerMutualAid</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/QueerCrowdfund" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>QueerCrowdfund</span></a></p>
Adrianna Tan<p>One of the upsides (there are very few) of growing up <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> where I did (Singapore) is that it was legitimately just impossible for me to understand social pressure or ways in which I had to fit in. I never once had a ‘I should do X because my parents / teachers / society’ thinks I should moment. </p><p>People from back home often say ‘oh you have such a clear vision for what you want to be’ and I’m partly also like.. ‘I didn’t have a choice? Also you all made me feel like shit for it?’ </p><p>I have always had a clear-eyed vision for the life I want to lead and the ways in which I will not bend to fit in. Simply because I know there’s no fitting in anyway, all paths there lead to rejection, so why try.</p>
Adrianna Tan<p>As an <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> person with certain skills, I can do some really complicated things but things like how to buy pants that fit me really flummox me</p>
SeaFury 🦜🍉<p>In the second episode the waiter is taking a day off to go to the police precinct. The cook is asked to take an order off a customer in the dining room. He says "I'm not good interfacing with people" the boss corrects him, " You mean you're not good with white people" This made me thinking, maybe this is me... but nah, I am the same with Chinese people too <a href="https://aus.social/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Chinese" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Chinese</span></a></p>
The Autistic Innovator :Aro:<p>'I am' and 'have' changes how we relate (and what makes grammatical sense) to our autism/neurodivergent/ADHD like:</p><p>I am autistic<br>I have autism<br>I'm ADHD <br>I have ADHD<br>I am neurodivergent<br>I have neurodivergent</p><p>Or<br>I'm AuDHD<br>I have AuDHD</p><p>Which ones do you use the most to describe yourself?</p><p>I use:</p><p>I'm autistic<br>I'm ADHD<br>I'm neurodivergent</p><p>AuDHD is harder to explain what it means so I just say "I'm autistic and ADHD"</p><p>This is just a curious question to see what others use. 🙂</p><p><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a><br><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a><br><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a><br><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a></p>
Sean C.<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> an interesting comment was made to me recently about using Facebook Groups, similar to this group, as a form of self care.</p><p>i personally have significant trust issues with all things Meta since the Cambridge Analytica debacle and minimize use of their services.</p><p>so i'm curious, how does everyone else feel on which is better for our community. feel free to choose as many as apply.</p>
Dr. Figuring-things-aut<p>Me, looking for a part-time and or remote job: *opens job ad*</p><p>First line of the job ad: "Do you get energy from meeting people?..."</p><p>Me: *immediately closes the job ad*</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Seth the brave<p>Autistic community, tell me where are you at with "high functioning labels" and the term "Asperger" why are you against these or for them?</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Neurodiversity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Neurodiversity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodivergence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a></p>
Kevin Davy<p>Update on my broken paw. </p><p> I saw the physio today. All seems to be healing as well as can be expected and he gave me exactly what I wanted. Which was a series of exercises to help my hand. He did seem slightly mystified as to why I was still wearing the wrist brace, which, as I already knew, is not necessary and seemed somewhat confused with my explanation that it helped me to remember that the hand was injured. Further explanation that I'm not always aware of pain and that I've never met a door frame yet that I haven't eventually bumped into and that I wore it for added protection, for some strange reason, didn't seem to help.</p><p> On a further note, coming up to three weeks off work means that I have almost completely lost track of what day it is. I spent all last Tuesday utterly convinced that it was Monday. As a consequence, waking up the next day to find out that it was Wednesday, meant that part of me was utterly convinced that somehow I had been robbed of a day.<br> All I can say is, given that I spend so much time on here, which one of you bastards did it? </p><p> (Although, my money is on that bloody armoured squirrel.)</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <br><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
SecondUniverse<p>Autistic people can be trans too. It's not either-or. The transphobes who try to restrict access to gender affirming care on grounds of autism are denying autistic people bodily autonomy. My gender is a valid expression of my autism. I just couldn't make sense of their neurotypical gender fuckery. <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
josh susser<p>This is a good video from Forrest Valkai knocking down a "let's protect conversion therapy" bill in Oklahoma, and criticizing conversion therapy in general.</p><p>But I have to say, it always bothers me that we see so many straight allies denouncing queer conversion therapy (which is a good thing), but I can't remember ever seeing even a single allistic person denounce ABA that way. Queer conversion therapy and ABA are the same thing, created by the same person, just done on different groups. It sucks that somehow being queer is worthy of people standing up for you, but being autistic is not. So we have to do it all ourselves without any help from allistics.</p><p>Every time I see someone stand up against conversion therapy, I want to reply NOW DO ABA! What will it take for people to care about us the way they care about everyone else?<br><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ABA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ABA</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ConversionTherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ConversionTherapy</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/StopTheShock" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StopTheShock</span></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/qxFhiJn9wRU" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">youtu.be/qxFhiJn9wRU</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
Shantell Powell<p>Something frightened Biscuit last night. Something that left him terrified for at least a half hour. I don't know what it was, but he was running as fast as he could on his saucer trying to get away from it. I picked him up and carried him around which calmed him a little bit, but he was still trembling. It took a lot of calm talking and a few treats to settle him back down. </p><p>I've had other chinchillas who would get terrified like this for no known reason, but Biscuit isn't usually like this. I wish I knew what set him off. </p><p>I think it's interesting that I have a much easier time understanding the emotions of critters than I do humans. Maybe it's an autistic thing, but human emotions have always been a mystery to me. <a href="https://c.im/tags/Chinchilla" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Chinchilla</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Heather Cook🖖Autistic Coach<p>Of course I developed anxiety, but it’s not because there was anything wrong with me. It is a completely reasonable reaction to avoid things that hurt you. </p><p><a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/Anxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Anxiety</span></a></p>
Ms. Que Banh<p>Hey, fellow <a href="https://beige.party/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> folks! Especially fellow <a href="https://beige.party/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> folks.</p><p>Do you have a flirt radar?<br>I do not.<br>I never know when anyone is flirting with me.<br>Almost all the time when it does happen, someone else has to point it out to me &amp; even then, I usually don't see/understand what they're talking about.<br>I do not know how to flirt either.<br>I am very direct. In the past, my straight forward nature has intimidated many NTs &amp; some NDs who haven't invested much time in getting to know me better.<br>I'm quite friendly &amp; engaging with almost anyone whom I find interesting &amp; seems to share similar core values. It doesn't matter what gender, if any, they identify with either.<br>My straight forward friendly style seems to make many CIS guys think I'm interested in more than platonic friendship, when I am not.<br>If I like anyone more than just a platonic friend, I am pretty open about telling them that, directly.<br>If I don't say it - don't assume more than I actually say. I have this thing called, emotional maturity.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Looking for explanations…<p>Am sitting, waiting for a train after leaving the dentist. One more procedure to go to finish off this new crown. I’m realising just how much I’ve masked &amp; disassociated in the past at the dentist. My last visit was a little awkward. I had a stim toy in one hand. But this time, we kept stopping &amp; the nurse would give me a face &amp; jaw massage (which I liked). And the dentist handed me a squishy stress ball. I think he must’ve done some reading. He seemed a bit more relaxed with me. It was good. </p><p>Had to put phone down, cos I got talking to the woman next to me, who was pissed off about the delayed train. Younger than me, very dark glasses, bald, with a walker. Was diagnosed with terminal bowel cancer after finally sending off their first poo test. (In Australia, over 50s can sign up for a test, send in a poo sample.) Had to bite my tongue a few times. They have good reason to be pissed off at the world. Then a woman wearing a sunflower lanyard (autism) came along &amp; explained to yet another woman that I was afraid of catching Covid. (I was masked, the only masked person for as far as I’d seen all morning.) </p><p>Exhausting, uncomfortable, but not all bad. I hope our chat gave some comfort to the woman living with cancer. We did manage a couple of laughs. </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/neurodiversity" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>neurodiversity</span></a></span> <br><a href="https://aus.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
SecondUniverse<p>I just migrated here from SecondUniverse@neurodifferent.me, so as a quick introduction... I am a trans woman. I transitioned back in the nineties before the world declared war on us. I was diagnosed with autism in my fifties, and more recently I have self diagnosed myself as having CPTSD. I post about astronomy, game development, trans issues, mental health, autism, and writing. <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/gameDev" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gameDev</span></a></p>
:banana_slug:<p>⚠️ EXTREMELY URGENT!! it's halfway thru march &amp; octo is still trying to get last month's needs met, she is even more behind now. please help!!!</p><p>$795/~2441</p><p>octo is a trans, plural recent graduate making plans to move out of her abusive parents' house. she did really well in school but she is struggling with severe anxiety from the abuse &amp; lack of funds for her monthly bills.</p><p>- <a href="https://ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g=0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g</span><span class="invisible">=0</span></a><br>- <a href="https://donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32QfEA6os" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32Q</span><span class="invisible">fEA6os</span></a></p><p>⭐ you can get handmade art or a short story collection or an email with file storage space for donating to her here:<br>- <a href="https://writing.exchange/@riveraerica/113994586546564887" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">writing.exchange/@riveraerica/</span><span class="invisible">113994586546564887</span></a><br>- <a href="https://terror.black/@sayyid_qishta/113422065701306276" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">terror.black/@sayyid_qishta/11</span><span class="invisible">3422065701306276</span></a><br>- <a href="https://flipping.rocks/@inherentlee/113947145294908139" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">flipping.rocks/@inherentlee/11</span><span class="invisible">3947145294908139</span></a><br>- <a href="https://weirder.earth/@june/113889814363872521" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span 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lizzzzard<p>Hey <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> people. I remember dimly that there was a correlation between autism and gastrointestinal symptoms. Does anyone remember more clearly and can infodump or point me to a study/source?</p>
:banana_slug:<p>⚠️ EXTREMELY URGENT!!</p><p>$781/1371 OVERDUE BY 11 DAYS</p><p>please help octo! she is a trans, plural recent graduate making plans to move out of her abusive parents' house. she did really well in school but she is struggling with severe anxiety from the abuse &amp; lack of funds. she needs help covering cat food/litter, new glasses, &amp; bills. she didn't meet her goal last month.</p><p>- <a href="https://ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g=0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g</span><span class="invisible">=0</span></a><br>- <a href="https://donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32QfEA6os" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32Q</span><span class="invisible">fEA6os</span></a></p><p>⭐ you can get handmade art or a short story collection or an email with file storage space 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